I haven't listened to Sarah McLachlan in about 10 years but I did own a copy of Mirrorball at one time. Admitting such things publicly usually results in having your man card revoked but I would argue that real men don't need a card to prove their manhood and implying that listening one of the forces behind Lilith Fair is not a guy thing to do is just genderist... but that's probably a post for another day... Anyway, since KB died I don't think that I've really had the opportunity to grieve. There were funeral arrangements and paperwork for the federal government, paperwork for insurance people, paperwork for KB's work benefits, banking appointments, endless phone calls, organ transplant discussions, the list goes on and on and on. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining even though the tone of the words that spew out when I tell people sound very much like complaining. The truth is, I'm happy to do whatever I have to to make sure our ki...